Understand that sometimes people who you're suppose to be able to go to for help will just flat out be unhelpful. Not that they don't want to help, although that's possible as well but rather they're just not very thoughtful. I can recall some really air brain responses to issues I have faced from people who were suppose to be in a position of leadership. Learn how to navigate around unhelpful people. Sometimes it's best if you never mention to them anything and just do what you have to do. M.W.